the conversation: how i tell escorts i'm trans
There's this moment right before I reach out to a new escort where my hands shake a bit. Not from nerves about the sex part. From nerves about the trans part.Every time, I have to decide how and when
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There's this moment right before I reach out to a new escort where my hands shake a bit. Not from nerves about the sex part. From nerves about the trans part.Every time, I have to decide how and when
Every time I book an appointment, there's this moment. This moment where I have to tell them I'm trans. Not just tell them. Explain. Negotiate. Sometimes defend my own existence.Last week's booking wa
Another brutal week in the city. The markets have been savage and my team's been working 16-hour days trying to close this massive infrastructure financing deal. By Friday night, I'm completely wrecke
I know I'm probably not the typical person on here, if there is a typical person. Fairly new to this, eighteen months or so. Secondary school PE teacher, which I mention only because when I decided...
Living in Brighton means I've got access to a pretty open and diverse escort scene. As a bi guy, I've been lucky enough to explore connections with both male and female providers, and it's honestly fa
My family would disown me if they knew. Every Sunday at the gurdwara, surrounded by aunties discussing arranged marriage prospects, I smile and nod. Inside, I'm burning with secrets.The pressure to ma
Sometimes I think the only people awake during my hours are night shift workers and sex workers. Two tribes living in this weird parallel universe while everyone else sleeps or commutes or does whatev
Living in Brighton means I've got access to a pretty diverse escort scene. And as someone who's bisexual, that diversity is something I really appreciate. My experiences with male and female escorts h
Another week crushed at the bank. My eyes are burning from spreadsheets and my neck is knotted from tension. When you're pulling 14-hour days in the City, you start to understand why guys like me need
Most people look at me and see a wheelchair first. They see disability before they see desire. But Sarah saw me. Really saw me.I've been thinking a lot about how disabled people get infantilised. We'r
Being bisexual in Brighton means having options. Lots of them. The city's queer-friendly atmosphere makes exploring sexuality feel natural, almost expected. I've seen both male and female escorts over
Sometimes I wonder how many other Sikh men are living this exact double life. Respectable during the day, another person entirely after dark. My family would be devastated if they knew.Last week I saw
Another week another hotel room. Travelodge in Birmingham this time not that different from the Manchester Piccadilly Travelodge I was in last week. Same beige walls same slightly lumpy bed same weak
four years sober dont mean the hunger goes away. just means u learn to manage it different. used to feed every craving instant. heroin. sex. whatever filled the hole. now i think bout things more care
Another week another Premier Inn. Sometimes I swear these business trips are just an excuse to see a bit of company. Not that Im complaining. Sales work can be brutal and lonely especially since the d
Most of the time, being disabled means being treated like I'm invisible or like I'm a problem to be solved. But not with Sophia. From the moment she opened the door, everything was different.I'd been
The first time I tried to book an escort, I was terrified. Not just nervous. Terrified. Would they even want to see me? A guy in a wheelchair. Young, but still disabled. Would they be disgusted? Sympa
Listen, nightlife in Liverpool can be mental but sometimes u want more than just another random hookup from the bar. Past few months ive been mixing things up. Not saying Im done with the traditional