when the conversation goes sideways
I hate the pre-booking conversation. Every single time. There's this moment where I have to explain my body, my transness, and hope the person I'm about to see doesn't suddenly decide I'm too complica
Trans man, early 30s. Writing about navigating desire as a trans person.
I hate the pre-booking conversation. Every single time. There's this moment where I have to explain my body, my transness, and hope the person I'm about to see doesn't suddenly decide I'm too complica
Last weekend I met Sarah. She was recommended by another sex worker in a trans-friendly network. Those networks are lifelines, honestly. Not just for safety but for understanding.I always have to have
There's this moment right before I reach out to a new escort where my hands shake a bit. Not from nerves about the sex part. From nerves about the trans part.Every time, I have to decide how and when
Every time I book an appointment, there's this moment. This moment where I have to tell them I'm trans. Not just tell them. Explain. Negotiate. Sometimes defend my own existence.Last week's booking wa