why escorts work better for my autistic brain
Dating is a minefield for autistic guys like me. All those unwritten social rules, the constant performance of being interested but not too interested, reading signals that might as well be in a forei
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Dating is a minefield for autistic guys like me. All those unwritten social rules, the constant performance of being interested but not too interested, reading signals that might as well be in a forei
Last weekend I met Sarah. She was recommended by another sex worker in a trans-friendly network. Those networks are lifelines, honestly. Not just for safety but for understanding.I always have to have
It's another Wednesday. Mary's watching her programs downstairs and I'm up here pretending to work. We haven't been intimate in years. Not really intimate. I mean physically, obviously, but also just.
Dating apps are a special kind of hell for someone like me. I'm autistic, which means every interaction feels like navigating a minefield of unspoken social rules. Swipe left, swipe right. Make witty
so everyone talks about sex like its this magical thing thats gonna be perfect and smooth and hot all the time. porn does that. all these unrealistic scenarios where everything just works. im gonna be
Rite so been thinkin bout this since me last few bookings. When ur workin construction like me u get jobs all over and ur paychecks mean u can treat urself. City girls in Dublin always cost more but p
People always want to talk about the sex when it comes to escorts, but nobody really talks about the money. And I mean really talks about it. Not just the hourly rate, but the total economic ecosystem
Sometimes what I miss most isn't sex. It's the quiet moments. The shared silence over morning coffee, a hand touching yours while watching some rubbish telly. My marriage ended three years ago and I'd
Since the separation two years back, Im finding out how expensive it is to basically run two households. Child support, separate rent, keeping both places somewhat decent. Its a financial squeeze that
Christ its been a long rotation this time. Two weeks out on the north sea and im climbing the walls by the end of it. Offshore work does that tae ye. All steel corridors and diesel and men packed tigh
Been drivin routes round northern england past few weeks and lemme tell ya somethin bout loneliness. Trucks get real quiet after midnight specially when ur rollin through industrial estates outside ma
Small towns are brutal when you're trying to keep something private. Waterford might not be Dublin, but it's big enough that you can't know everyone yet small enough that everyone knows something abou
Sometimes the silence out here gets too much. Farm work is just me and the fields most days, no conversation cept maybe the local at the pub on saturday if im lucky. Thats why i drive. City is 2 hours
Back from six weeks North Sea. Brutal rotation this time. Rigs never change but the men do. New faces. Same old stories bout how hard we work how much we miss home. Truth is home for most of us is jus
I've been in this game long enough to know every city has its own rhythm when it comes to paid companionship. Geneva's clinical precision versus Dublin's chaotic charm. After years of traveling betwee
Another Friday night in Dublin and I'm staring at lines of JavaScript instead of making eye contact with anyone at the pub. My social anxiety isn't just a barrier. It's a full-on firewall blocking any
Used to think recovery meant being a monk. Zero desire. Zero contact. But thats not how addiction works innit. Recovery is about managing urges not pretending they dont exist.When im feeling low and t
People don't talk about how disabled folks get physical connection. Not really. They talk around it. About care. About medical stuff. But not about skin. About wanting to be held. About sex.Sarah was