gerry_derry Northern Ireland ยท Derry

quiet touches in a noisy world

Theres something about getting older that nobody tells you. The silence. Not just the quiet round the house after Margaret passed but the deep silence of skin not being touched. Whole weeks go by and

21 Mar 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 45
pete_leeds England ยท Leeds

how seeing escorts helped me stay clean

four years sober and i still get the itch. not the drug itch. the human touch itch. the connection itch. recovery rooms tell u to avoid all ur old triggers but what if the trigger keeps u stable.escor

18 Mar 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 44
galway_ghost Ireland ยท Galway

companionship for a divorced man in galway

When Margaret left five years ago, she took more than half the house and most of my confidence. Suddenly I was this greying man in a half-empty terrace, wondering how intimacy had become something oth

17 Mar 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 46
welsh_wanderer Wales ยท Swansea

norfolk to liverpool: a week on the road

Been drivin lorries near on 30 years now and sometimes the loneliness gets proper heavy. Not gonna lie. Roads blur together like grey watercolours and all ya got is yr radio and yr thoughts.Last tuesd

15 Mar 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 45
sean_waterford Ireland ยท Waterford

keeping secrets in a small place like Waterford

It's not easy being discreet in a town where everyone knows everyone. I've lived here my whole life. My family goes back generations. This means every interaction, every glance could potentially unrav

11 Mar 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 50
max_liverpool England ยท Liverpool

nightlife, lonely nights, and why i call rosa

Nights behind the bar get long sometimes. Proper long. Liverpool weekend crowds are mental but once everyone's gone home and I'm cleaning up, it hits different. Quiet. Lonely.Most lads my age go on Ti

7 Mar 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 55
kilkenny_k Ireland ยท Kilkenny

three hours there three hours back

Its a long drive from my farm into Limerick. Norah knows this. She doesnt judge me when I arrive sweaty from the road worn out from watching empty fields roll past me for hours.Rural life gets lonely.

6 Mar 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 54
dave_london England ยท London

stress relief in mayfair: an evening with sophia

Another brutal week at the bank. Market's been unforgiving and my team's been pushing hard on this infrastructure financing deal. By Friday afternoon, I was wound tighter than a City trader during Bre

5 Mar 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 57
liam_dublin Ireland ยท Dublin

the emotional arithmetic of paying for intimacy

Sometimes I wonder if my wife knows how lonely a marriage can get. Not the kind of lonely where you're physically apart, but where you're emotionally disconnected. Where conversations become transacti

26 Feb 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 57
mark_nottingham England ยท Nottingham

the conversation: how i tell escorts i'm trans

There's this moment right before I reach out to a new escort where my hands shake a bit. Not from nerves about the sex part. From nerves about the trans part.Every time, I have to decide how and when

26 Feb 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 64
andy_belfast Northern Ireland ยท Belfast

why i prefer escorts to dating apps in Belfast

Look. Dating apps are a nightmare for someone like me. I'm autistic and the constant performance of trying to impress someone, reading subtle social cues, managing expectations. It's exhausting.Escort

25 Feb 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 52