sikh_bham England ยท Birmingham

the weight of two worlds

Sometimes I wonder how many other Sikh men are living this exact double life. Respectable during the day, another person entirely after dark. My family would be devastated if they knew.Last week I saw

26 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 52
corkman99 Ireland ยท Cork

dealing with first time nerves: my experience

Right so. First time seeing an escort can mess with your head. I was legit shaking when I booked my first appointment. After my ex left me last year, I was proper lonely and knew I needed something di

26 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 46
pete_leeds England ยท Leeds

clean doesn't mean dead: desire after recovery

four years sober dont mean the hunger goes away. just means u learn to manage it different. used to feed every craving instant. heroin. sex. whatever filled the hole. now i think bout things more care

22 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 52
rob_manc England ยท Manchester

hotel nights and manchester girls

Another week another Premier Inn. Sometimes I swear these business trips are just an excuse to see a bit of company. Not that Im complaining. Sales work can be brutal and lonely especially since the d

22 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 46
dermot_tralee Ireland ยท Tralee

quiet conversations at the snug

Its the little conversations that tell ya everything in a small town like Tralee. Ive been running my pub for thirty years now and youll hear things. Men dont talk direct but they talk round the edges

16 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 42
quiet_edinburgh Scotland ยท Edinburgh

respectable men and secret desires

There's something peculiar about being a widower in your fifties. The loneliness creeps in quietly, like Edinburgh fog rolling over Arthur's Seat. My academic colleagues would never understand. They s

9 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 52
gerry_derry Northern Ireland ยท Derry

what we dont talk about in derry

Theres a silence in Derry thats thicker than the fog over the Foyle. A silence about bodies. About touch. About wanting.I wasnt always this lonely. Margaret and me we had 42 years together. Proper mar

5 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 52
gerry_derry Northern Ireland ยท Derry

the silence in derry about wanting touch

Theres a quiet desperation that comes with getting old in a place like Derry. Where everything was about survival during the Troubles and now its about pretending we dont have needs. My Mary passed se

4 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 46
rob_manc England ยท Manchester

hotel room blues: another wednesday in birmingham

Another sodding Wednesday night in a generic Premier Inn. Birmingham this time. Sometimes I swear these chain hotels all blend into one massive beige blur of corporate carpeting and identical rooms.Bo

4 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 35
cardiff_carl Wales ยท Cardiff

companionship and the spaces between grief

It's strange how loneliness creeps up on you. After Margaret passed, I thought the silence would swallow me whole. Our little house in Roath felt like a museum of memories. Every chair, every bookshel

3 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 51
dave_london England ยท London

when the city drains you: why i see elena

Another brutal week at the bank. When people talk about finance jobs being glamorous, they've clearly never sat through six consecutive 16-hour days of spreadsheets and investor presentations. By Frid

3 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 50