Look, im gonna be straight up. First time seeing an escort is mad nerve-wracking. After my breakup last year I was a total mess and everyone talks about escorts like its no big deal but lemme tell ya its anything but simple.
I remember sweating buckets just booking the appointment. Kept checking my phone thinking Id messed up the details or shed cancel on me. Independent girl I found online through some forums. Her pics looked sound but you never really know til youre there.
Biggest thing is just being sound. Treat her like a human. I was so worried about looking like an idiot that I nearly talked myself out of the whole thing. But once we met it was grand. Shes a professional and knows exactly how this works. Helps calm the nerves.
Weird thing is the emotional stuff. Its not just about the sex. Its about feeling connected for a bit. Feeling like someone actually wants to spend time with ya. Post breakup that was huge for me.
Pro tip if youre nervous: just be honest. Tell her youre new to this. Most girls appreciate that more than you pretending youre some player.