Christ, I was a wreck before my first time. Post breakup with Sarah, six months of zero action and honestly feeling like complete shite about myself. My mate Darren suggested checking out an agency in Cork, said it'd help me get my confidence back.
Spent days obsessing over every detail. Googled everything. Checked reviews. Picked an agency with solid ratings, decent prices. Wanted someone professional who wouldnt make me feel like an idiot for being nervous.
Day of the appointment, I was sweating bullets. Hands shaking while booking, forgot my address twice when confirming. The receptionist must have dealt with nervous lads like me a thousand times. She was sound about it, just walked me through the basics calm like.
Turns out being honest about being new helps. I told her straight up it was my first time and she matched me with a girl who was patient. Not gonna get into graphic details but she made me feel comfortable. Didnt rush anything. Talked a bit first. Helped me relax.
Pro tip for other first timers: just breathe. Dont overthink it. These are professionals who do this every day. They're not judging you.