gerry_derry Northern Ireland ยท Derry

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Theres something about getting older that nobody tells you. The silence. Not just the quiet round the house after Margaret passed but the deep silence of skin not being touched. Whole weeks go by and

21 Mar 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 39
andy_belfast Northern Ireland ยท Belfast

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25 Feb 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 47
andy_belfast Northern Ireland ยท Belfast

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I've been doing this long enough to have what I'd describe as a methodology, which is either a sign of a certain kind of personality or evidence that I've thought about it more than necessary....

17 Feb 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 45
gerry_derry Northern Ireland ยท Derry

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Theres a silence in Derry thats thicker than the fog over the Foyle. A silence about bodies. About touch. About wanting.I wasnt always this lonely. Margaret and me we had 42 years together. Proper mar

5 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 46
gerry_derry Northern Ireland ยท Derry

the silence in derry about wanting touch

Theres a quiet desperation that comes with getting old in a place like Derry. Where everything was about survival during the Troubles and now its about pretending we dont have needs. My Mary passed se

4 Jan 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 40